Friends Come and Go

Rai, you love meeting new people and you're most happy when surrounded by people and part of the action. So, the quiet life at the cabin often leads to the, as your Grandpa calls it, 'Please Hold Me Syndrome' in you. There are moments when nothing but being held and talked to comforts you.
Knowing this, your Grandparents brought along a new friend for you when they came to the cabin. He's your height and he doesn't mind when you curiously poke and pull at him. Those are two traits you really like in a friend. Remember when you first really interacted with your future wife? It was really hard on you when you pulled Lalima's hair and she started to cry. I'm not going to say that that ruined your marriage or anything, but you're really going to have to put on the charm to make up for it.
Back to your new friend, though. First of all, he has no hair for you to pull. Big plus. Second, even when you did pull his arm so hard that it actually came right off, there was no word of complaint from him. In fact, there are not too many words coming out of his mouth at all. Sure he's quiet, but he just never stops smiling. Pull off his arm? He smiles. Push him so hard that he falls? Still smiling. Now this is a friend you could spend some time with!
In the end, though, despite his perpetual smile he never seemed to warm up to you quite enough (in his defense, I'll note, however, that getting warm may be fatal). Other than that grin, you just never got any sign that he even knew you existed. You tried and tried. You even put on that crazy Christmas tree hat but still, nothing but the cold shoulder.
Rai, this will happen in life. Don't go out of your way to please or attract people that are playing hard to get. Move on. Your new friend, Marklee the Snowman did just that. As soon as a snowman of the fairer sex arrived, he was in snowman heaven and your short courtship was soon forgotten.