Recruiting

When you become a new parent there is something that was never important before that, all of a sudden, becomes incredibly important and that is: to find and surround yourself with as many other new parents as you can. Having something in common with others is one of the main things that keeps people together and there is nothing bigger that two people or two couples can have in common than babies.
And, if you can't find other new parents, the only option left is to convince baby-less couples to have babies of their own. All newlyweds are ready for the pressure to have babies that comes from their parents, but few are ready for the relentless attack that comes from their friends with babies. "So... are you guys thinking about having a baby?" We've asked this question of all the young, married couples we know, countless times.
The message is clear: we want more babies and if you can't produce those babies, we want nothing to do with you. Fulfill your biological destiny, friends; make some babies! Our boy needs playdates and playmates. Make it happen!